My old man sat by the kitchen light
With coffee going cold in his hands
He said, son, there’s a kind of man
Who keeps running from where he stands
He wears his pride like Sunday boots
And calls it freedom when he’s gone
But every mile he leaves behind
Is a heart that learned to move on
He said, the road can teach you courage
But it can steal your name
And a lonely man with nothing left
Will call his sorrow fame
Don’t let the road raise your son
Don’t let the night be his home
Teach him love before the dust
Turns his heart into stone
Let him know that strong men cry
Let him know when he is wrong
Don’t let the road raise your son
Or he’ll be lost before too long
My mother kept a rosary
Beside a picture on the wall
Of a brother who chased easy money
And never came back at all
She said, mijo, listen closely
A man ain’t measured by his fight
He’s measured by the hands he holds
When he comes home at night
There’s music in the cantina
There’s whiskey in the glass
But not every smiling stranger
Is a friend that’s built to last
Don’t let the road raise your son
Don’t let the night be his home
Teach him love before the dust
Turns his heart into stone
Let him know that strong men cry
Let him know when he is wrong
Don’t let the road raise your son
Or he’ll be lost before too long
And if he falls, don’t shame him
If he breaks, don’t turn away
A boy becomes a hardened man
When nobody asks him to stay
So put your arms around him
Before the world teaches him pain
A child who learns he’s loved enough
Won’t have to run from his own name
Don’t let the road raise your son
Don’t let the night be his home
Teach him love before the dust
Turns his heart into stone
Let him know that real men pray
Let him know they can belong
Don’t let the road raise your son
Bring him home where he is strong
My old man closed the kitchen door
And said, one day you’ll understand
The hardest thing a boy can learn
Is how to become a gentle man